A Romantic Love Letter by Mary Wollstonecraft

A Romantic Love Letter written by Mary Wollstonecraft to William Godwin

Although Mary Wollstonecraft was born into a upper middle class family her parents were alcoholics and she had a fairly miserable existence until she “escaped” that background by becoming a governess  and companion whilst working for a bookseller and publisher.

Mary Wollstonecraft, Anglo-Irish feminist and writer, to William Godwin, philosopher and writer. She over the years hand been writing love letters to men whom she was attached.  We will be adding a number of her very loving love letters shortly.

By this time of writing this love letter she had supposedly got over the break-up with Captain Gilbert Imlay with whom she had had a very difficult life with his betrayals turning to other women. He had had even left her and their daughter Fanny in Paris France to face the French revolution guards at a time when many of her friends were being arrested on trumped up charges and taken to the guillotine to be beheaded.  Despite all that she loved him and even attempted sucide when she thought she could not go on alone.

However she was rescued in time and married William Godwin to whom this letter is addressed.  Shortly after her marriage  on March 29, 1797 she died whilst giving birth to Mary (her daughter who was to marry the poet Shelley and become the author of “Frankenstein”) but not before writing this charming love letter.

It is believed that this romantic love letter was written October 4, 1796

I would have liked to have dined with you today, after finishing your essay – that my eyes, and lips, I do not exactly mean my voice, might have told you that they had raised you in my esteem. What a cold word! I would say love, if you will promise not to dispute about its propriety, when I want to express an increasing affection, founded on a more intimate acquaintance with your heart and understanding.

I shall cork up all my kindness – yet the fine volatile essence may fly off in my walk – you know not how much tenderness for you may escape in a voluptuous sigh, should the air, as is often the case, give a pleasurable movement to the sensations, that have been clustering round my heart, as I read this morning – reminding myself, every now and then, that the writer loved me.

Voluptuous is often expressive of a meaning I do not now intend to give, I would describe one of those moments, when the senses are exactly tuned by the ringing tenderness of the heart and according reason entices you to live in the present moment, regardless of the past or future – it is not rapture – it is sublime tranquility.

I have felt it in your arms – hush! Let not the light see, I was going to say hear it – these confessions should only be uttered – you know where, when the curtains are up – and all the world shut out – Ah me!

I wish I may find you at home when I carry this letter to drop it in the box, – that I may drop a kiss with it into your heart, to be embalmed, till me meet, closer.

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We will be adding a number of passionate love letters written by Mary to the despicable Captain Imlay showing the various stages of her deep and forgiving love for the man.

Other Love letters written by Mary Wollstonecraft

Romantic Love Letter written August 1793

Romantic Love Letter written December 1793

Romantic love letter written December 29 1973

Romantic love letter written January 1794

Romantic love letter written March 12 1794

Romantic love letter written Oct 26 1794

Romantic love letter written Sept 23 1794

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Mary Wollstonecraft to Gilbert Imlay

MarywollstonecraftMary Wollstonecraft (27 April 1759 – 10 September 1797) was an eighteenth-century British writer, philosopher, and radical feminist even before feminism as a movement as we know it today existed. Indeed many people suggest the feminist movement did not really start till around one hundred years afte her death so it is of interest to see her work.

Wollstonecraft is best known for A Vindication of the Rights of Woman (1792), in which she argues that women are not naturally inferior to men, but appear to be only because they lack education. She suggests that both men and women should be treated as rational beings and imagines a social order founded on reason. Her radical life style and romantic relationships portrayed her strong feelings about the role of women. Gilbert Imlay to whom she wrote this love letter (written in Paris during the French Revolution) was one of many men and women with whom she showed heavy romantic and sexual involvement. Although they did not marry she was registered by him as his wife to save her life at a time when many of her British friends were losing theirs on the guillotine.

Paris, 1793, Friday morning

I am glad to find that other people can be unreasonable as well as myself; for be it known to thee that I answered thy first letter the very night it reached me ( Sunday ). though tho couldst not receive it before Wednesday, because it was not sent off till the next day. There is a full, true, and particular account.

Yet I am not angry with thee, my love, for I think that it is a proof of stupidity, and like wise of a milk —and — water affection, which comes to the same thing when the temper is governed by a square and compass. there is nothing picturesque in this straight — lined equality, and the passions always give grace to the actions. Recollection now makes my heart bound to thee; but it is not thy money — getting face, though I cannot be seriously displease with the exertion which increases my esteem, or rather is what I should have expected from thy character.

No; I have thy honest countenance before me — relaxed by tenderness; a little — little wounded by my whims; and thy eyes glittering with sympathy. Thy lips then feel softer than soft, and I rest my cheek on thine, forgetting all the world. I have not left the hue of love out of the picture — the rosy glow; and fancy has spread it over my own cheeks, I believe, for I feel them burning, whilst a delicious tear trembles in my eye that would be all your own, if a grateful emotion directed to the Father of nature, who has made me thus alive to happiness, did not give more warmth to the sentiment it divides. I must pause a moment.

Need I tell you that I am tranquil after writing thus? I do not know why, but I have more confidence in your affection, when absent, than present; nay, I think that you must love me, in the sincerity of my heart let me say it, I  believe I deserve I your tenderness, because I am true, and have a degree of sensibility that you can see and relish.

Yours sincerely,  Mary

The relationship later brke down as Wollstonecraft following the birth of her first daughter became more domesticated and maternal. He left her behind in France and showed no sign of returning before she attempted suicide the first of many. She later died just days after giving birth to a second daughter by another man William Godwin who later published his own book on her lifestyle and destroyed her reputation socially by describing her life in detail and she was promptly forgotten by history

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Mary Wollstonecraft to Gilbert Imlay

Gilbert Imlay was the father of Mary Wollstonecraft’s daughter the young girl that so looked like her father. By this time this love letter was written he had left her and departed for England. It took her nearly two years to realise he had no intention of returning and their romantic relationship was now over.

When she did come to accept the reality of the relationship being over she attempted suicide on a number of occasions the first time taking laudanum the second by throwing herself in the river. Even after these failed attempts she continued to pursue him for a number of years even undertaking business trips on his behalf to regain his finances which he had lost due to poor business decisions.

Paris, evening, 23 September  1794

I have been playing and laughing with the little girl so long, that I cannot take up my pen to address you without emotion. Pressing her to my bosom, she looked so like you (entre nous, your best looks, I do not admire your commercial face), every nerve seemed to vibrate to the touch, and I began to think that there was something in the assertion of man and wife being one for you seemed to pervade my whole frame, quickening the beat of my heart, and lending me the sympathetic tears you excited.

Have I anything more to say to you? No; not for the present — the rest it all flown away; and indulging tenderness for you, I cannot now complain of some people here, Who have ruffled my temper for two or three days past.

Her closing comments obviously relate to the changing situation in Paris France where she still lived and the revolutionary guard who were taking strong interest in her and a number of close friends. Yes Gilbert had left her (and their daughter) there to face possible death on the guillotine.

See http://loveletterscentral.com/333/wollstonecraft-gilbert-imlay-2/ for more details about the love relationship between these two people.

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